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Another world is quietly awakening

It’s cherry blossom season in the DMV (Washington DC-MD-VA), and these blossoms are a metaphor for the moment. There is a flourishing and supportive entrepreneurial community in the area that has the fertile soil needed to grow and blossom, and the people feeding the soil are steeped in mission-driven service ethics, technical and policy-driven mindsets, and the hunger to create something new from the ashes of what was burned down.

Quote from Arundhati Roy, ""Another World is not only possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing.

I recently graduated from the inaugural entrepreneurial cohort of Founders Rising, a business incubator for former/endangered Federal workers and contractors who are in the early stages of founding businesses, sponsored by the Maryland Women’s Business Center. The program gave me a window into many key aspects of running a business and curated some very important connections.

The final pitch competition was profound for me in a surprising way. When I entered the event, I found many women I had connected with over the past year across many contexts: fellow entrepreneurs, other members of the cohort, people I’d met through networking events, and others involved in supporting the out-of-work community. As I walked through the room, I found myself tearfully hugging many women, and I felt the power of many worlds colliding; and it struck me that I did not know a single one of these women a year ago.

As a researcher with a 30-year career, I am used to this type of joyful reunion and genuine connections within the professional research community. But it was mind-blowing to have reached this level of familiarity and care in a single year with an entirely different group. I’m repeatedly struck by the importance of these genuine connections in my professional life. I haven’t ever done it alone.

This is the warmth and sunshine.

After the darkest winter, the cherry blossoms are blooming forth in our area, and I’m struck that we are all cherry blossoms, sharing branches, soil and sun as we bloom against all odds.

Picture of cherry blossoms

The many flourishing entrepreneurial support organizations, business and nonprofit incubators, networking groups, organizations and events provide the soil for us to grow and help us develop the structure we need to flourish.

Something powerful is happening here. It’s still in the early stages, but I’m listening, present, and very excited to be a part of it.

I launched my own LLC in late December, The Community Stories and Conversation Project, LLC, built with the intention of reimaging research as a community resource. Our logo and foundation include the cherry blossoms. The LLC hosts the TCSCP (pronounced “Talk Soup”) Network for independent researchers and research entrepreneurs. We began with 20 founding members, and in our first 3 months, we have doubled in membership, become profitable beyond expectations, launched an internal Lunch and Learn series and, most importantly, begun to bring work to independent researchers.

Logo of the Community Stories and Conversation Project

The Network functions as an easy one-stop shop for those looking for researchers to work with. In addition to traditional research clients, we support small businesses and entrepreneurs, making research services available to new types of clients who could not engage a larger research organization. We are looking to build strategic partnerships that bring steady sources of work to our members, such as partnerships with tech ESOs supporting emerging tech entrepreneurs who would benefit greatly from having an accessible stream of user-testing researchers, or those looking to build new pipelines and connections between communities and community organizations and funding sources.

logo of the TCSCP or "Talk Soup" Network

You are welcome, of course, to be a part of our movement. Join the network as a researcher, collaborate with us, support our efforts or partner with us to help build something powerful and uniquely ours.

Yesterday was the anniversary of the April Fools’ HHS layoffs that affected many of my clients and set in motion the largest career shift of my life after nearly 30 stable years of working in the research industry. I gathered with other former feds and contractors through a WellFed happy hour, and I left feeling proud of the myriad ways in which people had reinvented themselves.

When I awoke, the blossoms on the cherry tree in my yard had turned mostly green, preparing to bear fruit, and the forest behind the tree had continued to spring back to life. I can’t tell you about the harvest or the summer, but I can tell you that what I feel is hope and a palpable anticipation of whatever is to come.

What is the real product here?

I was recently talking with a friend about my community conversation series. She told me that the real value in the sessions was in the data produced. I was shocked! Do community conversations produce data?

I have to say; this ruffled my feathers. The intention behind the session was always one of self expression, forming or reinforcing connections between people, fostering healing and resilience, and building community. If they were intended for data collection, I would have instituted a consent process and considered inviting ethical review. Data collection has a very different connotation in my field, and these are community based advocacy, not focus groups!

But I’ve been ruminating further on her words. Coming out of these sessions, there’s a clearer sense of what people are experiencing, how they are coping and what kinds of resources would be helpful to better support them at this time. And honestly, for any group that knows that some members are suffering, these are important outputs.

Are they data? No. Insights? No. Traditionally, they are none of these things. But they do provide valuable and necessary information that can be built upon to build better support systems and structures.

I’ve heard anecdotally from many groups of people affected by the sweeping government changes that they want to know what’s going on with their members and how to support them. I honestly believe that these community conversations are the answer to that; allowing both an opportunity to support people and an opportunity to explore a path forward through the chaos.

The value is on both one-off sessions and in repeated sessions within the same community. My mission is to build them in such a way that groups and people can benefit. It’s a slow process, as I figure out how to meet people where they are, and I’m always open to advice or interest!

Interesting in joining a session or getting involved?

Here is the mailing list:

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfrIlrlCJzm5E4ahoR_JOh6E-KaB1nbGyJ2SmdQqKL99JHrOQ/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=114493619372705360657

Here is the next online session:

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/1382445414449?aff=oddtdtcreator

Navigating Career Changes from the Inside Out

Years ago on this blog, I wrote about approaching career changes from the inside out. I had accomplished the biggest career change of my life that way, by following my passions with my books, talks and extra research sessions and then blogging about them here.

Last week at the annual AAPOR conference in St Louis, an attendee in a session about Navigating Career Change asked about feeling unsatisfied with their work. This is a common motivation for switching jobs, but I chimed in from the audience as a voice of caution.

“I think about it like an unscratched itch,” I advised. “Maybe there is some part of you that your work life isn’t satisfying. But this is a horrible time to switch jobs so I advise you instead to find other ways to scratch that itch. You may still decide you’re ready for a change, but if, for example, you decide that you really do need your job to offer more space for creativity, you now have recent experiences to speak to as examples of you pursuing your creative endeavors.”

We expect our jobs to be our calling, our everything. And we give them everything. But we are so many things, and we need to exist beyond our work.

I’m at another point of career change. After nearly 30 years of working in my career- with the longest break being 3 weeks of maternity leave, I’ve lost my job as a government contractor as part of the deep federal cuts. I could look directly for another position, but I want to take my time with it. We only live once, and I want to take inventory of all of my itches before deciding how to scratch.

I want to build out this Community Conversations initiative, but I want to be thoughtful about it. I’m not trying to recreate what others have done, so much as build something new that fits our current needs. This requires intuition, reflection, patience, resilience, and determination. It means that some days are among the most fulfilling of my life, hosting cathartic community sessions or having really inspiring conversations with friends and colleagues, and some days I wonder why I’m adrift instead of staying on the career path.

This initiative was founded from the inside out, reflecting 

  1. my facilitation skills that I’ve learned through years of moderating, facilitating and community work, 
  2. my passion for building mental health that was cultivated through voices like Iyanla Vanzant, Pema Chodron, Rachel Cargle and the Nap Ministry,
  3. my profound interest in community based participatory research and the principles that guide it, and
  4. my love of strategic conversations, brainstorming and forming new ways to approach problems.

Forming an initiative from the inside out means that guiding our next steps is a continual process of self reflection. This means that a day spent at one of my favorite art galleries, taking pictures that I may able to use for an exhibit of my own one day, getting lost in the woods on its campus and finding new ways to engage with my surroundings is just as important as a day spent documenting the plan for the initiative, including the financial and communication aspects.

I always imagined my life in chapters, with a later chapter as a more wholeheartedly creative era. And I love the creativity I’m feeling now! But a change so dramatic as this requires some careful stewardship and navigation.

I’m not really sure where any of this is headed, but I’m confident that just as when I recreated my life before, these steps will lead me in the right direction. Because I’m scratching my itches!

Have you navigated big changes like this? Do you have unscratched itches? Do you have any advice or resources to offer? Please comment! Let’s continue the conversation.

Picture taken by me, in the grounds of the Glenstone Museum in Potomac, MD 5/22/2025

The Lost Value of Community

What role does community play in your life? Maybe you have a circle of friends or a supportive family. You may have a religious or professional community that is supportive, nurturing or helpful. Maybe your neighborhood nurtures strong ties, or a hobby group of yours feels like ‘your people.’ These networks can be invaluable in our lives, and yet they are rarely held up for the value they offer.

In the recent turmoil, with the uncertainty around government work and government contracting, my own networks began to take on a different character. My friends began sharing memes about the uncertainty and rapidly unfolding events and laughing together as we also supported each other through dramatic changes in our own workplaces. My LinkedIn network began more personable and supportive, and I began to follow updates to keep track of what was happening to my current and former colleagues.

In our local networks, we persistently asked, ‘what can we do differently to address the rapidly changing needs of the people in our network?’

This, my friends, is the core purpose of the Community Conversation series I’ve been building. In each session, participants have an opportunity to talk about the changes afoot, interspersed with grounding exercises that progressively relax us and help us practice skills for managing acute anxiety and distress. Once we are calmer, and we have had our say, and we have a better sense of what people are experiencing, we brainstorm together about how we can support each other differently at this time, ideally in ways that empower people in our networks that may feel as though they’ve had something stripped away.

In one professional group, this meant rethinking professional support in a more horizontal way. What if we formed learning communities for those who want to practice, learn or teach R or Python? What if we created networks for pairing mentors, build networks of lobbyists to speak on behalf of our field, or offer resume review from peer to peer? We spoke about how we embody the knowledge, skills and institutional history of our field, and it is important for us to remember that in our approaches to self and community care. We spoke about having potlucks and cooking for each other instead of just attending costly happy hours. The community conversation series is about collective healing and protecting that which we believe in- in new and exciting ways.

In one church group, the support looks differently. We learn more about each other as we express our experiences and fears, build some collective peace, and learn about what our community members need and have to offer in very different ways. We represent a mix of professions and backgrounds, and we find new ways to protect and support the church family.

These conversations blow my mind, because they involve a deeper level of connection than I have previously seen in these networks. They help people feel valued, empowered, supported, connected and ready for whatever comes their way. People arrive at the groups with the strong emotions they have been carrying on their own shoulders and leaving smiling, laughing and relaxed. This is, at its core, what it means to restore people.

And yet, building these networks further will require funding, volunteer labor or institutional help. The groups themselves need to remain free or close to it. But there are expenses; a zoom account, physical meeting spaces, food for meetings, possibly technological support, etc. Stay tuned in the near future for opportunities to assist.

In the meantime, I encourage you to join our mailing list, to hear about upcoming events and activities or to get involved. We are also available to answer any questions you may have about the initiative.

join our mailing list: https://forms.gle/usQPq46moTo3hmu58

attend a virtual event: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/community-conversation-finding-our-footing-in-this-uncertain-time-tickets-1322116238259?aff=oddtdtcreator

You may see the need for these groups but not your place within them. I want you to know that there is room for everyone to come as you are. Experience some peace, and connect more deeply with others in your community. Together we can weather whatever comes our way. Alone, we may just be blown away in the breeze.